Curious if you guys alter your strategy when it comes to meeting/dating women with kids. Seeing as how their lives no longer revolve solely around themselves, do you think women with children seek out different qualities and behaviors in men?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
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Bible_Belt
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do you think women with children seek out different qualities and behaviors in men?
oh yeah, they are interviewing potential daddies.
oh yeah, they are interviewing potential daddies.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I'd alter my expectations.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
maranathaman
Master Don Juan
The thing about Moms is that their lives revolve around their kids....
You know what this means for you?
This means that you get the leftovers of her time, energy, attention and affection.
I been there done that on more than one occasion and unless you REALLY like kids and want to have kids, I reccomend that you avoid Moms...
You know what this means for you?
This means that you get the leftovers of her time, energy, attention and affection.
I been there done that on more than one occasion and unless you REALLY like kids and want to have kids, I reccomend that you avoid Moms...
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Either that or she hates men because of her baby daddy and thinks they're good for nothing but the schlong, in which case you're golden :rockon:
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Baby mama drama!!!! Looking for a husband!!!!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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And lose your power as a man!!! You gained a hor and lost your MANHOOD - YIPPPPEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!Adrian said: