"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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whats with all the hate

funny but first off I turned down a mod spot awhile ago for this forum. (actually if mods are wondering it is in Eternal's goodbye speech or if he asked me on AIM I turned it down. One or the other. Eternal will vouch though. Hopefully)

I've got friends, but i'm not trying to get in their pants.
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where did you get that one from bud:confused: I don't understand where you got that I'm trying to get into a mods pants. Did I say that in any post at all :confused:

People complaining
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then you agree with me that people do complain including you because all I did was put up one thing defending the mods and you blew it out of proportion and called me a parasite.

and you have to put up "Mr. Smithers'" constant arse licking.
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Cosidering I ain't butt licking anyone. I don't know where you get that one from. Alll that I am is being respectful of the rules.

Comic_Relief, other then the fact that I chose it because it was an answer on one of my tests that I couldn't remember, sounded cool and fun to use, and I wanted to change my original name, baseballDJ, because I was looking for a nice name change. Gee and why did anyone else choose there names. Why did Wyldfire choose wyldfire, Why did WescottII choose that name, and etc.

BTW why did you bold farcical
far·ci·cal Audio pronunciation of "farcical" ( P ) Pronunciation Key (färs-kl)
adj.

1. Of or relating to farce.
2.
1. Resembling a farce; ludicrous.
2. Ridiculously clumsy; absurd.

farcical

adj : broadly or extravagantly humorous; resembling farce; "the wild farcical exuberance of a clown"; "ludicrous green hair" [syn: ludicrous, ridiculous]
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I'm a fool. Hmmm... Rather be a fool that people like then an a-hole that no one likes. Don't misconstrue this to mean that you are the ahole you aren't :rolleyes:

Hey Eternal!!! looks like I got my own one man fan club of hate!!! Yipee and I thought only mods could get that :D.

P.S. Don't bother because he ain't a mod anymore and looks like he ain't got no power. BTW if I was really in this for personal gain I would have dropped him in a heartbeat once he quit the job.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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*Sigh* I thought this crap would end long ago...

Look both of you, stop the pathetic arguing. Yes, Comic turned down a mod spot. Yes, Wescott was suspended once under a different name for this exact crap.

I suggest you both just go out, have a drink, and be done with it.
 
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:D and I was just bored

EDIT: I've chilled out immensely and realized how stupid that was. So I'm here to bury the hatchet and forget about what happened. What you say Wescott?
 
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Originally posted by Eternal
*Sigh* I thought this crap would end long ago...

Look both of you, stop the pathetic arguing. Yes, Comic turned down a mod spot. Yes, Wescott was suspended once under a different name for this exact crap.

I suggest you both just go out, have a drink, and be done with it.
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Amen.
 
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Originally posted by Eternal
*Sigh* I thought this crap would end long ago...

Look both of you, stop the pathetic arguing. Yes, Comic turned down a mod spot. Yes, Wescott was suspended once under a different name for this exact crap.

I suggest you both just go out, have a drink, and be done with it.
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Wow. You do know all my secrets. I'll forget it this time.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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