What the hell are you talking about, you just came out of nowhere. How can you talk about patience when I waited for 2 years to become a mod!Originally posted by TheVirtualMind
Whatever happend to "patience?"
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What the hell are you talking about, you just came out of nowhere. How can you talk about patience when I waited for 2 years to become a mod!Originally posted by TheVirtualMind
Whatever happend to "patience?"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What are you implying? :trouble:Originally posted by Vincent
What the hell are you talking about, you just came out of nowhere. How can you talk about patience when I waited for 2 years to become a mod!
:cheer:
For most people, its in their human nature to be "power hungry" and being a mod is like being someone that is "powerfull". Thats just how people think, wheather they are aware of it or not. If I were to become a moderator here though, my intentions would be for nothing more than to help the other mods and allen keep this place in order.Originally posted by aBAzLLnA
What's so special about being a mod anyway? I never understood why people post like mofo's just to get the "mod" position...
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Others thrust their noses up moderators backsides.........Originally posted by comic_relief
don't forget mods aren't allowed to have a sense of humor or anything of the like. Everyone knows what happens to mods when they have a sense of humor...
people cry and complain...
Stuff like that isn't acceptable to be a moderator.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Vincent: YOU CAN DO IIIIIT! :crackup: *thinks of the movie "Waterboy"*
errr.... ya![]()
Laterz....
I guess it helps when you know allenOriginally posted by TheVirtualMind
Stuff like that isn't acceptable to be a moderator.
Also Vincent, I didn't wait 1 day to become a moderator...I waited nearly a week!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What makes it not acceptable? Is having some humour against the "rules"?Originally posted by TheVirtualMind
Stuff like that isn't acceptable to be a moderator.
I think that he was just joking because mods are supposed to act like robots but cannot hurt others feelings, if you do therefore you will yelled at by a group of people saying how it should never have happened.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
What makes it not acceptable? Is having some humour against the "rules"?![]()
Neither do I. It's sycophants such as yourself that get my last nerve. Nothing personal, i just dislike sycophants in general. It's like you're sucking up to the head bully so he doesn't kick your ass.Originally posted by comic_relief
BTW wescott I'm friends with the mods and treat them like normal posters. I see nothing wrong with any of them.
comic_relief
so then if I was friends with you or anybody else on this forum other then mods and i wanted to stick up for you against the mods. Would that still be just as bad or would that somehow be good.Originally posted by WesCottII
Neither do I. It's sycophants such as yourself that get my last nerve. Nothing personal, i just dislike sycophants in general. It's like you're sucking up to the head bully so he doesn't kick your ass.
Thank you comic. Apparently ''sarcasm'' is lost on aqueitas.Originally posted by comic_relief
I think that he was just joking because mods are supposed to act like robots but cannot hurt others feelings, if you do therefore you will yelled at by a group of people saying how it should never have happened.
Mod humor is strictly forbidden because everyone else starts getting yelled at.
comic_relief
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
OoOoO you badass. YouOriginally posted by TheVirtualMind
Also Vincent, I didn't wait 1 day to become a moderator...I waited nearly a week!
There is NO sign of ANY sarcasm in that, so my appologies for not picking that upStuff like that isn't acceptable to be a moderator.
That is between me, Allen, and that bottle of Scotch.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
And by the way.... what was ur previous nick on here?![]()
Laterz...
Hmmmm...... I tell you what.... keep the nick to yourself, but u beta share that g0d-damn scotch!:trouble:Originally posted by TheVirtualMind
That is between me, Allen, and that bottle of Scotch.
I've got friends, but i'm not trying to get in their pants.Originally posted by comic_relief
so then if I was friends with you or anybody else on this forum other then mods and i wanted to stick up for you against the mods. Would that still be just as bad or would that somehow be good.or
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Cliff notes : A fool. Pretty apt, huh?A humorous or farcical interlude in a serious literary work or drama, especially a tragedy, intended to relieve the dramatic tension or heighten the emotional impact by means of contrast.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.