What the hell are you talking about, you just came out of nowhere. How can you talk about patience when I waited for 2 years to become a mod!Originally posted by TheVirtualMind
Whatever happend to "patience?"
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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What the hell are you talking about, you just came out of nowhere. How can you talk about patience when I waited for 2 years to become a mod!Originally posted by TheVirtualMind
Whatever happend to "patience?"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What are you implying? :trouble:Originally posted by Vincent
What the hell are you talking about, you just came out of nowhere. How can you talk about patience when I waited for 2 years to become a mod!
:cheer:
For most people, its in their human nature to be "power hungry" and being a mod is like being someone that is "powerfull". Thats just how people think, wheather they are aware of it or not. If I were to become a moderator here though, my intentions would be for nothing more than to help the other mods and allen keep this place in order.Originally posted by aBAzLLnA
What's so special about being a mod anyway? I never understood why people post like mofo's just to get the "mod" position...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Others thrust their noses up moderators backsides.........Originally posted by comic_relief
don't forget mods aren't allowed to have a sense of humor or anything of the like. Everyone knows what happens to mods when they have a sense of humor...
people cry and complain...
Stuff like that isn't acceptable to be a moderator.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Vincent: YOU CAN DO IIIIIT! :crackup: *thinks of the movie "Waterboy"*
errr.... ya![]()
Laterz....
I guess it helps when you know allenOriginally posted by TheVirtualMind
Stuff like that isn't acceptable to be a moderator.
Also Vincent, I didn't wait 1 day to become a moderator...I waited nearly a week!
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What makes it not acceptable? Is having some humour against the "rules"?Originally posted by TheVirtualMind
Stuff like that isn't acceptable to be a moderator.
I think that he was just joking because mods are supposed to act like robots but cannot hurt others feelings, if you do therefore you will yelled at by a group of people saying how it should never have happened.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
What makes it not acceptable? Is having some humour against the "rules"?![]()
Neither do I. It's sycophants such as yourself that get my last nerve. Nothing personal, i just dislike sycophants in general. It's like you're sucking up to the head bully so he doesn't kick your ass.Originally posted by comic_relief
BTW wescott I'm friends with the mods and treat them like normal posters. I see nothing wrong with any of them.
comic_relief
so then if I was friends with you or anybody else on this forum other then mods and i wanted to stick up for you against the mods. Would that still be just as bad or would that somehow be good.Originally posted by WesCottII
Neither do I. It's sycophants such as yourself that get my last nerve. Nothing personal, i just dislike sycophants in general. It's like you're sucking up to the head bully so he doesn't kick your ass.
Thank you comic. Apparently ''sarcasm'' is lost on aqueitas.Originally posted by comic_relief
I think that he was just joking because mods are supposed to act like robots but cannot hurt others feelings, if you do therefore you will yelled at by a group of people saying how it should never have happened.
Mod humor is strictly forbidden because everyone else starts getting yelled at.
comic_relief
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
OoOoO you badass. YouOriginally posted by TheVirtualMind
Also Vincent, I didn't wait 1 day to become a moderator...I waited nearly a week!
There is NO sign of ANY sarcasm in that, so my appologies for not picking that upStuff like that isn't acceptable to be a moderator.
That is between me, Allen, and that bottle of Scotch.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
And by the way.... what was ur previous nick on here?![]()
Laterz...
Hmmmm...... I tell you what.... keep the nick to yourself, but u beta share that g0d-damn scotch!:trouble:Originally posted by TheVirtualMind
That is between me, Allen, and that bottle of Scotch.
I've got friends, but i'm not trying to get in their pants.Originally posted by comic_relief
so then if I was friends with you or anybody else on this forum other then mods and i wanted to stick up for you against the mods. Would that still be just as bad or would that somehow be good.or
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Cliff notes : A fool. Pretty apt, huh?A humorous or farcical interlude in a serious literary work or drama, especially a tragedy, intended to relieve the dramatic tension or heighten the emotional impact by means of contrast.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.