thedude4242
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Nothing. Play it cool. Sometimes, girls are actually busy. Get into contact when she's not busy, or let her contact you. Whatever's been working so far. Has she been initiating contact often? If so, let her keep doing that and throw her a bone once in awhile.
Whatever you do, don't change the recipe!
My $0.02
Whatever you do, don't change the recipe!
My $0.02
First of all, dont leave when she wants you to stay. Secondly, if she follows you to your car, she wants a goodnight kiss. Thirdly, dont take the aloof thing too far. (At least not until you've gotten her panties down.) You could have banged her the first night at her house. Unless she's fat and ugly (if THAT even stops her) she can get dyck anytime, so while waiting a week to call her back shows her your not needy and all, its plenty of time for her to meet another dude to sack-up and rail her like she wants. Give her a challenge, not a headache.
thedude4242
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ok listen here guys. I either move too fast or too slow. I try to F them and I move to fast talking sexual stuff. move too slow and they are mad cuz I didnt F them. kind of funny how she waited until it was nightime and the kids were in bed to have me drop off the clothes. everyone has been telling me to slow it down and dont be so foward with women. I slow it down and it hurts me.
I dont want to do too little but I dont want to do too much. I think she is a respectable girl unlike some other women. I didnt want to go in too hard.
I dont want to do too little but I dont want to do too much. I think she is a respectable girl unlike some other women. I didnt want to go in too hard.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
thedude4242
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I am not saying anything against any of the info from you guys on the boards. you gave me so good info. I am talking from people that I know.
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aloof thing? you mean dont go too long without contact?
yes, among other things. learn the difference between being the prize, and expecting her to be at your beck and call. She invited you over, asked you to stay longer than you wanted to, and ironed your clothes. What more do you want?? She probably thinks you have no interest in her and are toying with her. You want to keep her guessing, not assuming you dont want her. Her iron is getting colder by the minute. If she hasn't givin up and found another dyck, you better give yours to her NOW.
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but here is the thing. when you ask a women to get together with you and she turns you down twice I am kind of hesitant and going in for a third time and messing things up. she hasnt iniated contact and I did twice. I am not trying to be pushy here. she answered back my last texts but not the last one I sent her. dont you think if she was interested should would have done something by now.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.