thedude4242
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Nothing. Play it cool. Sometimes, girls are actually busy. Get into contact when she's not busy, or let her contact you. Whatever's been working so far. Has she been initiating contact often? If so, let her keep doing that and throw her a bone once in awhile.
Whatever you do, don't change the recipe!
My $0.02
Whatever you do, don't change the recipe!
My $0.02
First of all, dont leave when she wants you to stay. Secondly, if she follows you to your car, she wants a goodnight kiss. Thirdly, dont take the aloof thing too far. (At least not until you've gotten her panties down.) You could have banged her the first night at her house. Unless she's fat and ugly (if THAT even stops her) she can get dyck anytime, so while waiting a week to call her back shows her your not needy and all, its plenty of time for her to meet another dude to sack-up and rail her like she wants. Give her a challenge, not a headache.
thedude4242
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ok listen here guys. I either move too fast or too slow. I try to F them and I move to fast talking sexual stuff. move too slow and they are mad cuz I didnt F them. kind of funny how she waited until it was nightime and the kids were in bed to have me drop off the clothes. everyone has been telling me to slow it down and dont be so foward with women. I slow it down and it hurts me.
I dont want to do too little but I dont want to do too much. I think she is a respectable girl unlike some other women. I didnt want to go in too hard.
I dont want to do too little but I dont want to do too much. I think she is a respectable girl unlike some other women. I didnt want to go in too hard.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
thedude4242
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I am not saying anything against any of the info from you guys on the boards. you gave me so good info. I am talking from people that I know.
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aloof thing? you mean dont go too long without contact?
yes, among other things. learn the difference between being the prize, and expecting her to be at your beck and call. She invited you over, asked you to stay longer than you wanted to, and ironed your clothes. What more do you want?? She probably thinks you have no interest in her and are toying with her. You want to keep her guessing, not assuming you dont want her. Her iron is getting colder by the minute. If she hasn't givin up and found another dyck, you better give yours to her NOW.
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but here is the thing. when you ask a women to get together with you and she turns you down twice I am kind of hesitant and going in for a third time and messing things up. she hasnt iniated contact and I did twice. I am not trying to be pushy here. she answered back my last texts but not the last one I sent her. dont you think if she was interested should would have done something by now.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.