Quick question to the experienced djs here, tonight I have a date with my current main plate, however I know that later this evening there will be a party where 2 other attractive girls I met yesterday will also be there. If I take my current plate to this party, will it increase or decrease my appeal to these 2 other girls or it doesn't matter at all?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mixing plate with potential plates
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Serenity
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Don't rely on anyone else to be your value. Even if it helps, it should be irrelevant and your skill should be sufficient with or without.
lizardking82
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Don't do that. What if one of those girls comes running to you and hugs you tight and then kisses you? What you gonna do? What if she does and then you don't **** her at all while it causes you trouble with your main plate?
It is interesting how we, as men, sometimes like to test and **** up things that are working smoothly.
It is interesting how we, as men, sometimes like to test and **** up things that are working smoothly.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
what if your plate acts like your girl and the other two think you're taken?
what if your plate acts jealous/territorial and c0ckblocks you with the other two?
what if your plate somehow figures out that you brought her as a scheme to make the other two jealous/think you're cool/whatever? what if the other two figure that out?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
