Quick question to the experienced djs here, tonight I have a date with my current main plate, however I know that later this evening there will be a party where 2 other attractive girls I met yesterday will also be there. If I take my current plate to this party, will it increase or decrease my appeal to these 2 other girls or it doesn't matter at all?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Mixing plate with potential plates
- Thread starter Juanto
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Serenity
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Don't rely on anyone else to be your value. Even if it helps, it should be irrelevant and your skill should be sufficient with or without.
lizardking82
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Don't do that. What if one of those girls comes running to you and hugs you tight and then kisses you? What you gonna do? What if she does and then you don't **** her at all while it causes you trouble with your main plate?
It is interesting how we, as men, sometimes like to test and **** up things that are working smoothly.
It is interesting how we, as men, sometimes like to test and **** up things that are working smoothly.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
what if your plate acts like your girl and the other two think you're taken?
what if your plate acts jealous/territorial and c0ckblocks you with the other two?
what if your plate somehow figures out that you brought her as a scheme to make the other two jealous/think you're cool/whatever? what if the other two figure that out?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
