Quick question to the experienced djs here, tonight I have a date with my current main plate, however I know that later this evening there will be a party where 2 other attractive girls I met yesterday will also be there. If I take my current plate to this party, will it increase or decrease my appeal to these 2 other girls or it doesn't matter at all?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Mixing plate with potential plates
- Thread starter Juanto
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Serenity
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Don't rely on anyone else to be your value. Even if it helps, it should be irrelevant and your skill should be sufficient with or without.
lizardking82
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Don't do that. What if one of those girls comes running to you and hugs you tight and then kisses you? What you gonna do? What if she does and then you don't **** her at all while it causes you trouble with your main plate?
It is interesting how we, as men, sometimes like to test and **** up things that are working smoothly.
It is interesting how we, as men, sometimes like to test and **** up things that are working smoothly.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
what if your plate acts like your girl and the other two think you're taken?
what if your plate acts jealous/territorial and c0ckblocks you with the other two?
what if your plate somehow figures out that you brought her as a scheme to make the other two jealous/think you're cool/whatever? what if the other two figure that out?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
