Quick question to the experienced djs here, tonight I have a date with my current main plate, however I know that later this evening there will be a party where 2 other attractive girls I met yesterday will also be there. If I take my current plate to this party, will it increase or decrease my appeal to these 2 other girls or it doesn't matter at all?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mixing plate with potential plates
- Thread starter Juanto
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Serenity
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Don't rely on anyone else to be your value. Even if it helps, it should be irrelevant and your skill should be sufficient with or without.
lizardking82
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Don't do that. What if one of those girls comes running to you and hugs you tight and then kisses you? What you gonna do? What if she does and then you don't **** her at all while it causes you trouble with your main plate?
It is interesting how we, as men, sometimes like to test and **** up things that are working smoothly.
It is interesting how we, as men, sometimes like to test and **** up things that are working smoothly.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
what if your plate acts like your girl and the other two think you're taken?
what if your plate acts jealous/territorial and c0ckblocks you with the other two?
what if your plate somehow figures out that you brought her as a scheme to make the other two jealous/think you're cool/whatever? what if the other two figure that out?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
