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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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Mixed signals...what do ya think??

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Hey buds..

Theres this girl in my class who I've been having study sessions with (2 now) and she's cute, I wanna do her.

question is, that she ruffles my hair and playfully punches me in the arm, and that from my experience is NOT a sign of sexual attraction, but a sister like attitude. All the same, I found an opportune moment and held her hand, to which she didnt seem averse... I'm gonna apply the kiss test next time, but meanwhile, what do you think is happening here??
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Uh, those are good flirting signals also.

Ask for the number.

Call her a few days later.

Tell her that you'd like to hang out with her, and pick a place to do so.

Have fun, nothin serious, light topics, treat her like a sister in a way that you tease her alot.

At the end of the 'date', go in for the kill, so to speak.

Good luck.
 
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Stop obsessing over the "signals." Assume she likes you and act appropriately. If she doesn't, she'll let you know.
 
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Ditto on squirrels reply.

Most guys obsess too much about "signals" and "signs." Just make a move.
 
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not signs of sexual attraction!?!? what do you want her to do? grab your jock? her initiating physical contact is more than enough reason to go for it
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dont know

I had a couple of girls who would flick their haair, play with their ears, stretch back and reveal their stomachs, grab me by the arm, punch and tickle me and I wondered te same thing.

I think a little psychology could be useful here. Usually, the feeling you get from a person is a reflection of what they are giving off. ACTING on it is the hard bit.
 
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Re: dont know

Originally posted by Sart
I had a couple of girls who would flick their haair, play with their ears, stretch back and reveal their stomachs, grab me by the arm, punch and tickle me and I wondered te same thing.

I think a little psychology could be useful here. Usually, the feeling you get from a person is a reflection of what they are giving off. ACTING on it is the hard bit.
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Nice post Sart. Makes sense
 
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