Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Crazy Asian said:yeah, i hope so.
i'm also swimming for club during the summer and off season, so i hope to get my time down to a 1:03 high before season starts.
one of my friends went a 1:03 last year w/o working very hard. this year, he worked his @ss off and came to every practice but he got slower by 1.5 seconds. it was really weird.
no i mean it was the end of season at the state meet.Touchout said:Na it's not really that weird actually, he was probably physically exhausted, he probably didn't taper and just couldn't go 100%. Hell, early in the season when we were doing 8000 yard practices my time in one meet was 1:08 haha.
I'm looking foward to seeing you progress tho, I hope you stick to your plan.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Is this dinner? I think you could do better then cereal, chocolate milk and eggs. It makes me sick to my stomach thinking of that mixture.Crazy Asian said:Post workout :
3 scoops of whey (30g of protein)
7 whole grain cereal w/chocolate milk (carbs + 17g protein)
3 eggs scrambled (18g protein)
I-tallionStallion said:Is this dinner? I think you could do better then cereal, chocolate milk and eggs. It makes me sick to my stomach thinking of that mixture.
try a 1/2lb of beef (cooked anyway you want it) with potatos or beans. Lay off the milk - get something like "carbo gain" for after workout carbs - mix with whey in shake for postworkout
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
If your going for a clean bulk, then lay off the milk...pretty sugary and could make you fat but eh might not depending on your metabolism. I think you could do better for your meal tho. You probably won't find many big guys, eating chocolate milk and cereal to get big. Eggs are good tho.Crazy Asian said:no that wasn't dinner.
i really don't see what's wrong with my mixture.
everything was healthy.
my coach said the best thing to eat/drink after a workout is chocolate milk.
and the cereal was a good kind.
No fruits, and no bread I'd say. Starch and sugar is not good at night. veggies and steak is very good tho. Stick with something like that. I'd have steak or beef/potatoes 45 minutes after my post workout shake and then for dinner some other protein dish.Crazy Asian said:i accidentally fell asleep and just woke up.
i'm about to have dinner:
STEAK
wheat bread <--- would it be smart to cut this out since it's 8:00?
fruits and veggies.
and 3 fish oil's ( i already had some this morning.)
thanks for the advice.I-tallionStallion said:If your going for a clean bulk, then lay off the milk...pretty sugary and could make you fat but eh might not depending on your metabolism. I think you could do better for your meal tho. You probably won't find many big guys, eating chocolate milk and cereal to get big. Eggs are good tho.
No fruits, and no bread I'd say. Starch and sugar is not good at night. veggies and steak is very good tho. Stick with something like that. I'd have steak or beef/potatoes 45 minutes after my post workout shake and then for dinner some other protein dish.
Diet needs a lot of work.Crazy Asian said:Day 2:
Cereal w/milk <--- i'll start eating toast with peanut butter and eggs, but i didn't have time today.
crappy school lunch.
didn't work out today.
came home at 5:30 - didn't swim either.
dinner - pasta with scallops and tomato sauce.
veggies.
shrimp.
a packet of tuna w/ garlic, scallions, ginger and olive oil.
will probably be eating peanuts while i do hw and cram for tests tonight.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.