"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Missed come on???

Analyzeit

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Some people may have noticed my account starting a lot of threads its because this account is used by 3 people is that allowed lol?.

I was just wondering if I missed this opportunity although I don't think I did although I know a lot of people who have received and told me stuff in general of this question.

Anyway on Friday this girl kinda jokingly (but came off kinda seriously) that I was kicked out of the "group" anyway next day (I was fairly drunk) I ended up texting her, anyway she said "I got a valentine it's this guy from the same school in Auckland and that he appenetley got a question for her on Monday. I said (thinking I was being a very smooth drunk) said something like "ah damn I'll have to beat him to it!!, oh well you kicked me out of the group anyway" then she said "aw real" and then started saying all this stuff like how i could never be kicked out and stuff. And then we had conversation went some longer then i fell into coma lol

The fact is there's a lot of people who have had this same scenario the question basically is "If a chick kinda quickly takes back she said mean when you give off some type of hint that ur interested in her, is she interested or not." the story helped explain that.

Please help thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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turth is you can never tell...some girls will strip in front of you, give you a lap dance, tell you they love you...and the next day, she can completely ignore you

...this might be a come-on...or maybe she just wanted you to make her feel appreciated...who knows

what this site teaches you is that it doesn't matter if she's interested...it only matters if you're interested...if you're interested, you go in and get her...if you have enough self-confidence...you won't even need to wonder whether or not she's interested before making a move

good luck
 

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You make a good point but there many a reason why he has to know, i dont know them but he told me there was good reasons lol i agree with you
 

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His storys crap something bout being on a bus and it would make bus uncomfortable i told him just to ask, i hope you agree:cool:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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