"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Missed come on???

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Some people may have noticed my account starting a lot of threads its because this account is used by 3 people is that allowed lol?.

I was just wondering if I missed this opportunity although I don't think I did although I know a lot of people who have received and told me stuff in general of this question.

Anyway on Friday this girl kinda jokingly (but came off kinda seriously) that I was kicked out of the "group" anyway next day (I was fairly drunk) I ended up texting her, anyway she said "I got a valentine it's this guy from the same school in Auckland and that he appenetley got a question for her on Monday. I said (thinking I was being a very smooth drunk) said something like "ah damn I'll have to beat him to it!!, oh well you kicked me out of the group anyway" then she said "aw real" and then started saying all this stuff like how i could never be kicked out and stuff. And then we had conversation went some longer then i fell into coma lol

The fact is there's a lot of people who have had this same scenario the question basically is "If a chick kinda quickly takes back she said mean when you give off some type of hint that ur interested in her, is she interested or not." the story helped explain that.

Please help thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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turth is you can never tell...some girls will strip in front of you, give you a lap dance, tell you they love you...and the next day, she can completely ignore you

...this might be a come-on...or maybe she just wanted you to make her feel appreciated...who knows

what this site teaches you is that it doesn't matter if she's interested...it only matters if you're interested...if you're interested, you go in and get her...if you have enough self-confidence...you won't even need to wonder whether or not she's interested before making a move

good luck
 
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You make a good point but there many a reason why he has to know, i dont know them but he told me there was good reasons lol i agree with you
 
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His storys crap something bout being on a bus and it would make bus uncomfortable i told him just to ask, i hope you agree:cool:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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