"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Missed come on???

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Some people may have noticed my account starting a lot of threads its because this account is used by 3 people is that allowed lol?.

I was just wondering if I missed this opportunity although I don't think I did although I know a lot of people who have received and told me stuff in general of this question.

Anyway on Friday this girl kinda jokingly (but came off kinda seriously) that I was kicked out of the "group" anyway next day (I was fairly drunk) I ended up texting her, anyway she said "I got a valentine it's this guy from the same school in Auckland and that he appenetley got a question for her on Monday. I said (thinking I was being a very smooth drunk) said something like "ah damn I'll have to beat him to it!!, oh well you kicked me out of the group anyway" then she said "aw real" and then started saying all this stuff like how i could never be kicked out and stuff. And then we had conversation went some longer then i fell into coma lol

The fact is there's a lot of people who have had this same scenario the question basically is "If a chick kinda quickly takes back she said mean when you give off some type of hint that ur interested in her, is she interested or not." the story helped explain that.

Please help thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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turth is you can never tell...some girls will strip in front of you, give you a lap dance, tell you they love you...and the next day, she can completely ignore you

...this might be a come-on...or maybe she just wanted you to make her feel appreciated...who knows

what this site teaches you is that it doesn't matter if she's interested...it only matters if you're interested...if you're interested, you go in and get her...if you have enough self-confidence...you won't even need to wonder whether or not she's interested before making a move

good luck
 
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You make a good point but there many a reason why he has to know, i dont know them but he told me there was good reasons lol i agree with you
 
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His storys crap something bout being on a bus and it would make bus uncomfortable i told him just to ask, i hope you agree:cool:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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