"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Missed come on???

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Some people may have noticed my account starting a lot of threads its because this account is used by 3 people is that allowed lol?.

I was just wondering if I missed this opportunity although I don't think I did although I know a lot of people who have received and told me stuff in general of this question.

Anyway on Friday this girl kinda jokingly (but came off kinda seriously) that I was kicked out of the "group" anyway next day (I was fairly drunk) I ended up texting her, anyway she said "I got a valentine it's this guy from the same school in Auckland and that he appenetley got a question for her on Monday. I said (thinking I was being a very smooth drunk) said something like "ah damn I'll have to beat him to it!!, oh well you kicked me out of the group anyway" then she said "aw real" and then started saying all this stuff like how i could never be kicked out and stuff. And then we had conversation went some longer then i fell into coma lol

The fact is there's a lot of people who have had this same scenario the question basically is "If a chick kinda quickly takes back she said mean when you give off some type of hint that ur interested in her, is she interested or not." the story helped explain that.

Please help thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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turth is you can never tell...some girls will strip in front of you, give you a lap dance, tell you they love you...and the next day, she can completely ignore you

...this might be a come-on...or maybe she just wanted you to make her feel appreciated...who knows

what this site teaches you is that it doesn't matter if she's interested...it only matters if you're interested...if you're interested, you go in and get her...if you have enough self-confidence...you won't even need to wonder whether or not she's interested before making a move

good luck
 
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You make a good point but there many a reason why he has to know, i dont know them but he told me there was good reasons lol i agree with you
 
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His storys crap something bout being on a bus and it would make bus uncomfortable i told him just to ask, i hope you agree:cool:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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