Solomon
Master Don Juan
Eeeh gotcha, I'll send you an email bud
HOw old are you?
HOw old are you?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Holy fukk this thread is old as hell. Lol man i was such a young pup when I first posted in this...first time moving to the cities...lol memoriessssss. Damn sons. Time flies. Anyway update fellas Im still in the city ya dig? S mpls so hit me up I know all the clubs I got friends workin at Spin and have been pretty much everywhere.Solomon said:Here are some club reviews from twin cities night clubs.com
5. Axis 7.3
4. The Annex 7.3 (overrated to me)
3. 414 Sound bar 7.7(roflllll)
2. Valentino's 8.1
1. Envy 8.1 (been there once so I can't judge this place)
^^^eeeh, here is my list for 2008 (mind you, its not the best of all time just of that year)
5. Rosens (This bar is one of those when you go on the right night, you might find some fine ass breezy's)
4. Valentino's (This club fell of to me, the women now are sloppy and not on point like a couple years ago, however when its poppin its poppin)
3. Axis (two for ones are fire, the hottest bar tender *forgot her name* depending on the night you can come up or it can be a sausage fest)
2. The Wild Onion (not a club, but a great bar to work on escalation, its not too noisy, and tons of hotties)
1. Spin/Cream (free drinks before 11:30, no cover before 11 on sundays, and dark women, can't beat that)
Top five wack bars
5. Seven Ultra lounge (IF you wanna stand around with posers, and old cougars and lions who are to busy looking lame and not having fun be my guest, it has some hot chicks though only reason why its not lower on the list)
4. Gabby's (I feel bad for out of towners who are told this club is poppin, if you wanna catch something on your gentials sure)
3. Any club that told me to tuck in my chain (its a dog tag you f*cks, or said my pants were to baggy (lol @ my pants being baggy when they hugging my nuts I swear)
2. ClubCristal (200 people and one hot chick? no thanks, PASS)
1. Dive Bar (nothing but whales, and gorillas, avoid at all cost. you will be highly dissapointed if you spend money there, I wouldn't go there again on a free night)
Still here Julian where you been at brah?Julian said:whats up anybody still around LOL?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.