Solomon
Master Don Juan
Eeeh gotcha, I'll send you an email bud
HOw old are you?
HOw old are you?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Holy fukk this thread is old as hell. Lol man i was such a young pup when I first posted in this...first time moving to the cities...lol memoriessssss. Damn sons. Time flies. Anyway update fellas Im still in the city ya dig? S mpls so hit me up I know all the clubs I got friends workin at Spin and have been pretty much everywhere.Solomon said:Here are some club reviews from twin cities night clubs.com
5. Axis 7.3
4. The Annex 7.3 (overrated to me)
3. 414 Sound bar 7.7(roflllll)
2. Valentino's 8.1
1. Envy 8.1 (been there once so I can't judge this place)
^^^eeeh, here is my list for 2008 (mind you, its not the best of all time just of that year)
5. Rosens (This bar is one of those when you go on the right night, you might find some fine ass breezy's)
4. Valentino's (This club fell of to me, the women now are sloppy and not on point like a couple years ago, however when its poppin its poppin)
3. Axis (two for ones are fire, the hottest bar tender *forgot her name* depending on the night you can come up or it can be a sausage fest)
2. The Wild Onion (not a club, but a great bar to work on escalation, its not too noisy, and tons of hotties)
1. Spin/Cream (free drinks before 11:30, no cover before 11 on sundays, and dark women, can't beat that)
Top five wack bars
5. Seven Ultra lounge (IF you wanna stand around with posers, and old cougars and lions who are to busy looking lame and not having fun be my guest, it has some hot chicks though only reason why its not lower on the list)
4. Gabby's (I feel bad for out of towners who are told this club is poppin, if you wanna catch something on your gentials sure)
3. Any club that told me to tuck in my chain (its a dog tag you f*cks, or said my pants were to baggy (lol @ my pants being baggy when they hugging my nuts I swear)
2. ClubCristal (200 people and one hot chick? no thanks, PASS)
1. Dive Bar (nothing but whales, and gorillas, avoid at all cost. you will be highly dissapointed if you spend money there, I wouldn't go there again on a free night)
Still here Julian where you been at brah?Julian said:whats up anybody still around LOL?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.