Solomon
Master Don Juan
Eeeh gotcha, I'll send you an email bud
HOw old are you?
HOw old are you?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Minneapolis , Minneasota wanted
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Nice, this is what the **** I'm talking about
Lets get this **** poppin in minnesota *****es!!!:rockon:
Lets get this **** poppin in minnesota *****es!!!:rockon:
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Lets Get'eeeeeeeeeeeeeeemmmmmmmmmmmm
^^link it up, I'm always down to sarge with some new wings, as long as y'all ain't crazy
hahahah
^^link it up, I'm always down to sarge with some new wings, as long as y'all ain't crazy
hahahah
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Some club reviews
Here are some club reviews from twin cities night clubs.com
5. Axis 7.3
4. The Annex 7.3 (overrated to me)
3. 414 Sound bar 7.7(roflllll)
2. Valentino's 8.1
1. Envy 8.1 (been there once so I can't judge this place)
^^^eeeh, here is my list for 2008 (mind you, its not the best of all time just of that year)
5. Rosens (This bar is one of those when you go on the right night, you might find some fine ass breezy's)
4. Valentino's (This club fell of to me, the women now are sloppy and not on point like a couple years ago, however when its poppin its poppin)
3. Axis (two for ones are fire, the hottest bar tender *forgot her name* depending on the night you can come up or it can be a sausage fest)
2. The Wild Onion (not a club, but a great bar to work on escalation, its not too noisy, and tons of hotties)
1. Spin/Cream (free drinks before 11:30, no cover before 11 on sundays, and dark women, can't beat that)
Top five wack bars
5. Seven Ultra lounge (IF you wanna stand around with posers, and old cougars and lions who are to busy looking lame and not having fun be my guest, it has some hot chicks though only reason why its not lower on the list)
4. Gabby's (I feel bad for out of towners who are told this club is poppin, if you wanna catch something on your gentials sure)
3. Any club that told me to tuck in my chain (its a dog tag you f*cks, or said my pants were to baggy (lol @ my pants being baggy when they hugging my nuts I swear)
2. ClubCristal (200 people and one hot chick? no thanks, PASS)
1. Dive Bar (nothing but whales, and gorillas, avoid at all cost. you will be highly dissapointed if you spend money there, I wouldn't go there again on a free night)
Here are some club reviews from twin cities night clubs.com
5. Axis 7.3
4. The Annex 7.3 (overrated to me)
3. 414 Sound bar 7.7(roflllll)
2. Valentino's 8.1
1. Envy 8.1 (been there once so I can't judge this place)
^^^eeeh, here is my list for 2008 (mind you, its not the best of all time just of that year)
5. Rosens (This bar is one of those when you go on the right night, you might find some fine ass breezy's)
4. Valentino's (This club fell of to me, the women now are sloppy and not on point like a couple years ago, however when its poppin its poppin)
3. Axis (two for ones are fire, the hottest bar tender *forgot her name* depending on the night you can come up or it can be a sausage fest)
2. The Wild Onion (not a club, but a great bar to work on escalation, its not too noisy, and tons of hotties)
1. Spin/Cream (free drinks before 11:30, no cover before 11 on sundays, and dark women, can't beat that)
Top five wack bars
5. Seven Ultra lounge (IF you wanna stand around with posers, and old cougars and lions who are to busy looking lame and not having fun be my guest, it has some hot chicks though only reason why its not lower on the list)
4. Gabby's (I feel bad for out of towners who are told this club is poppin, if you wanna catch something on your gentials sure)
3. Any club that told me to tuck in my chain (its a dog tag you f*cks, or said my pants were to baggy (lol @ my pants being baggy when they hugging my nuts I swear)
2. ClubCristal (200 people and one hot chick? no thanks, PASS)
1. Dive Bar (nothing but whales, and gorillas, avoid at all cost. you will be highly dissapointed if you spend money there, I wouldn't go there again on a free night)
Holy fukk this thread is old as hell. Lol man i was such a young pup when I first posted in this...first time moving to the cities...lol memoriessssss. Damn sons. Time flies. Anyway update fellas Im still in the city ya dig? S mpls so hit me up I know all the clubs I got friends workin at Spin and have been pretty much everywhere.Solomon said:
Alright down to biz, my top 5 venues :
Azia - decent restaurant/lounge. Usually take a female here on a first time meet an greet. drinks are kinda pricey but there are some hot sophisticated females in this joint.
Club Spin - got a bro working here. its cool i guess. old ass club but has its moments...there is no re-entry so you cant leave which blows. thurs 18+ night, look for fine breezyz...friday and sunday is Cream which is a mostly black crowd but will see asians some and maybe a couple latinas. Plenty of fine ***** around any night.
sneaky petes - good place to go, got poles on the dance floor and good drinks. usually can get pretty full lots of fine chicks in here. more of a bar atmosphere.
all other bars - always good places to go...Brothers (college crowd), Rosens (solo is right, def find hotties here) imperial room (has upstairs an downstairs...small dancefloor...people rave about it like its very underrated but i dont see anything special).
My top spot goes to Aqua. Place is just really nice..cool colors, big ass dancefloor, hottest club in downtown prolly...next to NV...i dont like the layout of NV. However the bathroom attendant at Aqua is the biggest ******* on the planet, where as the guys at NV are usually pretty cool an just leave **** laying out like ciggs, gum, etc etc.
Seven is cool if you wanna front like your wallstreet but its full of squares so unless you just got out of a corporate meeting and are heading out with your invest banker buddies 7 aint the place to go. Oh yeah and HIGH CLASS prostitution GOES HARD up in 7, chambers, graves etc. ****s crazay son. lots of coke *****s.
Alright sooo this has been a long ass post but I hope some of my mpls bros get something out of this.
Oh and Honorable Mentions go to BARFLY...wed is 18+ can be poppin. and The Lounge which is kind of hidden away but worth the search. Alright thats it for now.
PEACE TO THE MIDDLE EAST
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Julian whats good man
Been to Sneaky Pete's once, and it was crazy a brother was in over his head with those white girls lol
Aqua? I don't know man, I ain't never felt Aqua like that, but then I ain't never gave Aqua and NV a chance because them bouncers be on some hate ****. The dress code in Minnesota really needs to be re-evulated, they won't let my peoples in!!!
lol
p.s. I wanna check out The Lounge, I remember a couple years ago my boy and I saw some fine a$$ girls sitting there chilling, we chopped it up for a minute and said "yo next weekend we going there" it never happend though.
Been to Sneaky Pete's once, and it was crazy a brother was in over his head with those white girls lol
Aqua? I don't know man, I ain't never felt Aqua like that, but then I ain't never gave Aqua and NV a chance because them bouncers be on some hate ****. The dress code in Minnesota really needs to be re-evulated, they won't let my peoples in!!!
lol
p.s. I wanna check out The Lounge, I remember a couple years ago my boy and I saw some fine a$$ girls sitting there chilling, we chopped it up for a minute and said "yo next weekend we going there" it never happend though.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Still here Julian where you been at brah?Julian said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Lil Magic
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winging it
Whats up man. Just moved to Minneapolis to do my Master's at UST. I'm 22 and live in Uptown.
Whats up man. Just moved to Minneapolis to do my Master's at UST. I'm 22 and live in Uptown.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
12 Bars of Xmas Bar Crawl Saturday
If you're not doing anything this would be a great opportunity to approach
tons of drunk chicks dressed slutty :crackup:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zxMgTm1ZAow
:woo:
If you're not doing anything this would be a great opportunity to approach
tons of drunk chicks dressed slutty :crackup:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zxMgTm1ZAow
:woo:
New to this forum. Not new to PUA or the Twin Cities. This thread looks like it hasn't been visited in a while. Hit me up if you're down to sarge in the Twin Cities. I've been going lone wolf too long and none of my buddies here are that into pick-up.
Cheers,
Thorsvald
Cheers,
Thorsvald
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Now that it's summer the skirts are out.....
Don't Sleep on "Tangiers" that place is loaded with hot hot talent
The W is also a great place
Wear a blazer, with a pocket square and a nice dress shirt and you should be Good to go!
Happy hunting!
Don't Sleep on "Tangiers" that place is loaded with hot hot talent
The W is also a great place
Wear a blazer, with a pocket square and a nice dress shirt and you should be Good to go!
Happy hunting!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.