Solomon
Master Don Juan
Eeeh gotcha, I'll send you an email bud
HOw old are you?
HOw old are you?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Holy fukk this thread is old as hell. Lol man i was such a young pup when I first posted in this...first time moving to the cities...lol memoriessssss. Damn sons. Time flies. Anyway update fellas Im still in the city ya dig? S mpls so hit me up I know all the clubs I got friends workin at Spin and have been pretty much everywhere.Solomon said:Here are some club reviews from twin cities night clubs.com
5. Axis 7.3
4. The Annex 7.3 (overrated to me)
3. 414 Sound bar 7.7(roflllll)
2. Valentino's 8.1
1. Envy 8.1 (been there once so I can't judge this place)
^^^eeeh, here is my list for 2008 (mind you, its not the best of all time just of that year)
5. Rosens (This bar is one of those when you go on the right night, you might find some fine ass breezy's)
4. Valentino's (This club fell of to me, the women now are sloppy and not on point like a couple years ago, however when its poppin its poppin)
3. Axis (two for ones are fire, the hottest bar tender *forgot her name* depending on the night you can come up or it can be a sausage fest)
2. The Wild Onion (not a club, but a great bar to work on escalation, its not too noisy, and tons of hotties)
1. Spin/Cream (free drinks before 11:30, no cover before 11 on sundays, and dark women, can't beat that)
Top five wack bars
5. Seven Ultra lounge (IF you wanna stand around with posers, and old cougars and lions who are to busy looking lame and not having fun be my guest, it has some hot chicks though only reason why its not lower on the list)
4. Gabby's (I feel bad for out of towners who are told this club is poppin, if you wanna catch something on your gentials sure)
3. Any club that told me to tuck in my chain (its a dog tag you f*cks, or said my pants were to baggy (lol @ my pants being baggy when they hugging my nuts I swear)
2. ClubCristal (200 people and one hot chick? no thanks, PASS)
1. Dive Bar (nothing but whales, and gorillas, avoid at all cost. you will be highly dissapointed if you spend money there, I wouldn't go there again on a free night)
Still here Julian where you been at brah?Julian said:whats up anybody still around LOL?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.