"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mini golf date, any advice for kino?

WhatchaOnaDo

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So I have a second date with this girl after I went bowling with her on the first date. I could have used a lot more kino the first time around, but I'm thankful that Ive got a second chance to atone for that poor kino performance. Any seasoned mini golf daters out there? Ive never been on one myself, but I thought it would make for a good opportunity to use some kino. Any tips/advice for a rookie are SUPER appreciated.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Only thing I would suggest is this. When she is lined up over her putt, tell her you see a slight flaw in her "form" and "stroke". Tell her you have a great "stroke". Emphasize the word stroke haha. Then tell her to line up her putt as she usually does, and get behind her and put your arms over her body and hang on to her putter and demonstrate the proper putting technique. That way you are almost straddling her, she will feel your crotch on her ass, and fireworks were ensue. :)

Do this.....seriously.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You could also tell her she's holding the club wrong and show her a different way to hold it.. And if you want you could add a little bet for each hole or for the whole game, use your imagination.
 

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Mini-golf is an epic date for teasing. Just make sure you do a little push-pull, so you're not berating her lack of skill the whole time...

As for kino, I like to just playfully hit them as they're about to hit the ball. Can be on the arm, lower back, or butt if you're confident she won't freak out too much.
 

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Tap her VERY LIGHTLY on the ankle with your club (no, not THAT club) when she's about to make a shot. Actually, just a touch, not a tap. She will turn around and possibly even hit you for trying to mess up her shot. SHe will love it. I've done this several times.
 
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