"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mini golf date, any advice for kino?

WhatchaOnaDo

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So I have a second date with this girl after I went bowling with her on the first date. I could have used a lot more kino the first time around, but I'm thankful that Ive got a second chance to atone for that poor kino performance. Any seasoned mini golf daters out there? Ive never been on one myself, but I thought it would make for a good opportunity to use some kino. Any tips/advice for a rookie are SUPER appreciated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cordoncordon

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Only thing I would suggest is this. When she is lined up over her putt, tell her you see a slight flaw in her "form" and "stroke". Tell her you have a great "stroke". Emphasize the word stroke haha. Then tell her to line up her putt as she usually does, and get behind her and put your arms over her body and hang on to her putter and demonstrate the proper putting technique. That way you are almost straddling her, she will feel your crotch on her ass, and fireworks were ensue. :)

Do this.....seriously.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Experience

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You could also tell her she's holding the club wrong and show her a different way to hold it.. And if you want you could add a little bet for each hole or for the whole game, use your imagination.
 

JCballin88

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Mini-golf is an epic date for teasing. Just make sure you do a little push-pull, so you're not berating her lack of skill the whole time...

As for kino, I like to just playfully hit them as they're about to hit the ball. Can be on the arm, lower back, or butt if you're confident she won't freak out too much.
 

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Tap her VERY LIGHTLY on the ankle with your club (no, not THAT club) when she's about to make a shot. Actually, just a touch, not a tap. She will turn around and possibly even hit you for trying to mess up her shot. SHe will love it. I've done this several times.
 
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