"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mini golf date, any advice for kino?

WhatchaOnaDo

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So I have a second date with this girl after I went bowling with her on the first date. I could have used a lot more kino the first time around, but I'm thankful that Ive got a second chance to atone for that poor kino performance. Any seasoned mini golf daters out there? Ive never been on one myself, but I thought it would make for a good opportunity to use some kino. Any tips/advice for a rookie are SUPER appreciated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cordoncordon

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Only thing I would suggest is this. When she is lined up over her putt, tell her you see a slight flaw in her "form" and "stroke". Tell her you have a great "stroke". Emphasize the word stroke haha. Then tell her to line up her putt as she usually does, and get behind her and put your arms over her body and hang on to her putter and demonstrate the proper putting technique. That way you are almost straddling her, she will feel your crotch on her ass, and fireworks were ensue. :)

Do this.....seriously.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You could also tell her she's holding the club wrong and show her a different way to hold it.. And if you want you could add a little bet for each hole or for the whole game, use your imagination.
 

JCballin88

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Mini-golf is an epic date for teasing. Just make sure you do a little push-pull, so you're not berating her lack of skill the whole time...

As for kino, I like to just playfully hit them as they're about to hit the ball. Can be on the arm, lower back, or butt if you're confident she won't freak out too much.
 

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Tap her VERY LIGHTLY on the ankle with your club (no, not THAT club) when she's about to make a shot. Actually, just a touch, not a tap. She will turn around and possibly even hit you for trying to mess up her shot. SHe will love it. I've done this several times.
 
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