Hello, I was in party. There was a girl who lives in my next house. We were dancing, I was giving her kino even my hand was on nearly her butt most of the time. However, I couldnt sense any escalation from her. What could be my problem or mistake?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Mini did not work?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Means nothing while dancing. Women equate dancing with sex, so when she's in the zone, you could had put your hands on her puss and she'd be okay. You need to turn her around and make the move to caress her and kiss. YOU need to escalate and THEY follow. Women are natural submitters... As long as you lead them to you. You need to start the make out session, she will not. Come on dude. This is dating 101 here.
Example.
I took a b!tch out for drinks tonight. 2.5 hours. 27 bucks. We left and walked past my car, we kept on walking and then to hers. She turned and went for a hug and then we started a nice make-out session, grabbed her ass (Puerto Rican
and other parts. Couldn't do too much as people were around. I said we see each other again soon. She texted me on the way back, she had a great time. We'll be fvcking next week. YOU need to make the move, she will not. Most women with even a smidgen of self respect will not jump your bones, especially in public.