Hello, I was in party. There was a girl who lives in my next house. We were dancing, I was giving her kino even my hand was on nearly her butt most of the time. However, I couldnt sense any escalation from her. What could be my problem or mistake?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Mini did not work?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Means nothing while dancing. Women equate dancing with sex, so when she's in the zone, you could had put your hands on her puss and she'd be okay. You need to turn her around and make the move to caress her and kiss. YOU need to escalate and THEY follow. Women are natural submitters... As long as you lead them to you. You need to start the make out session, she will not. Come on dude. This is dating 101 here.
Example.
I took a b!tch out for drinks tonight. 2.5 hours. 27 bucks. We left and walked past my car, we kept on walking and then to hers. She turned and went for a hug and then we started a nice make-out session, grabbed her ass (Puerto Rican
and other parts. Couldn't do too much as people were around. I said we see each other again soon. She texted me on the way back, she had a great time. We'll be fvcking next week. YOU need to make the move, she will not. Most women with even a smidgen of self respect will not jump your bones, especially in public.