Hello, I was in party. There was a girl who lives in my next house. We were dancing, I was giving her kino even my hand was on nearly her butt most of the time. However, I couldnt sense any escalation from her. What could be my problem or mistake?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mini did not work?
- Thread starter turing47
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Means nothing while dancing. Women equate dancing with sex, so when she's in the zone, you could had put your hands on her puss and she'd be okay. You need to turn her around and make the move to caress her and kiss. YOU need to escalate and THEY follow. Women are natural submitters... As long as you lead them to you. You need to start the make out session, she will not. Come on dude. This is dating 101 here.
Example.
I took a b!tch out for drinks tonight. 2.5 hours. 27 bucks. We left and walked past my car, we kept on walking and then to hers. She turned and went for a hug and then we started a nice make-out session, grabbed her ass (Puerto Rican
and other parts. Couldn't do too much as people were around. I said we see each other again soon. She texted me on the way back, she had a great time. We'll be fvcking next week. YOU need to make the move, she will not. Most women with even a smidgen of self respect will not jump your bones, especially in public.