you may have read my other post about those two girls. one with a bf and one single. well update is that im making out with the single one but were not anything official yet. BUT i keep messing around with the one with a bf and now now shes tellin me that this kid in our class is tight with her bf. SHE DIDNT SAY SHIET BEFORE. so now im wrried her bf is going to attempt to fight me or at least confront me. now im not afraid to fight but wit graduation 7 weeks aways i dont want to get expelled. damn i knew i shoulda stayed away from her. but what should i do if he confronts me or wants to fight
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
might get into a fight or confrontation
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Kev07
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stand your ground.
don't let him pressure you into a fight you don't want to fight.
if he gets up in your face, don't back down, but don't fight. if he pushes you, just walk right back up to his face, if he swings, then you can start kicking his ass, he'll be the one at fault. all you have to say is "well he started pushing me then out of nowhere he started swinging!, i didn't even push back!"
don't let him pressure you into a fight you don't want to fight.
if he gets up in your face, don't back down, but don't fight. if he pushes you, just walk right back up to his face, if he swings, then you can start kicking his ass, he'll be the one at fault. all you have to say is "well he started pushing me then out of nowhere he started swinging!, i didn't even push back!"
DJ in Progress
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Kev07 is right on. stand up to him and don't get pushed around.
kind of stupid to pick a fight with you though, if his GF is messsing around with other guys then he should have a problem with her, not you.
kind of stupid to pick a fight with you though, if his GF is messsing around with other guys then he should have a problem with her, not you.
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LMAO!BluEyes said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
same situation im in, i think il do wat 'kev07' said, update you all tomorow 
Skilla_Staz
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From personal experience, keep a few feet between the two of you. That way, if he swings first, you've got some space to get out of the way. I got right up in a kids face, and he clocked my ass. Luckily I recovered quick enough to dodge the next one, and put a few fists into his face before he curled up.
Moral of the story: Be on your toes. Don't get ****y, don't get arrogant, don't get stupid.
Moral of the story: Be on your toes. Don't get ****y, don't get arrogant, don't get stupid.
Kev07
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If you're close enough, he shouldn't be able to get a good swing in, and if he does, then you must be blind to not see it coming
he told me in a nice way that he heard i was giving looks to his girl and was like didnt want any problems cause he was cool with me. i just said dont woory about it. bcus now i have a grl so it wouldnt be fair to her. but the feelings toward the girl with a man are stilll there it feels weird to not touch her as much or watch what i say.
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