you may have read my other post about those two girls. one with a bf and one single. well update is that im making out with the single one but were not anything official yet. BUT i keep messing around with the one with a bf and now now shes tellin me that this kid in our class is tight with her bf. SHE DIDNT SAY SHIET BEFORE. so now im wrried her bf is going to attempt to fight me or at least confront me. now im not afraid to fight but wit graduation 7 weeks aways i dont want to get expelled. damn i knew i shoulda stayed away from her. but what should i do if he confronts me or wants to fight
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
might get into a fight or confrontation
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Kev07
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stand your ground.
don't let him pressure you into a fight you don't want to fight.
if he gets up in your face, don't back down, but don't fight. if he pushes you, just walk right back up to his face, if he swings, then you can start kicking his ass, he'll be the one at fault. all you have to say is "well he started pushing me then out of nowhere he started swinging!, i didn't even push back!"
don't let him pressure you into a fight you don't want to fight.
if he gets up in your face, don't back down, but don't fight. if he pushes you, just walk right back up to his face, if he swings, then you can start kicking his ass, he'll be the one at fault. all you have to say is "well he started pushing me then out of nowhere he started swinging!, i didn't even push back!"
DJ in Progress
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Kev07 is right on. stand up to him and don't get pushed around.
kind of stupid to pick a fight with you though, if his GF is messsing around with other guys then he should have a problem with her, not you.
kind of stupid to pick a fight with you though, if his GF is messsing around with other guys then he should have a problem with her, not you.
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LMAO!BluEyes said:
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
just so suave
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same situation im in, i think il do wat 'kev07' said, update you all tomorow 
Skilla_Staz
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From personal experience, keep a few feet between the two of you. That way, if he swings first, you've got some space to get out of the way. I got right up in a kids face, and he clocked my ass. Luckily I recovered quick enough to dodge the next one, and put a few fists into his face before he curled up.
Moral of the story: Be on your toes. Don't get ****y, don't get arrogant, don't get stupid.
Moral of the story: Be on your toes. Don't get ****y, don't get arrogant, don't get stupid.
Kev07
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If you're close enough, he shouldn't be able to get a good swing in, and if he does, then you must be blind to not see it coming
he told me in a nice way that he heard i was giving looks to his girl and was like didnt want any problems cause he was cool with me. i just said dont woory about it. bcus now i have a grl so it wouldnt be fair to her. but the feelings toward the girl with a man are stilll there it feels weird to not touch her as much or watch what i say.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.