you may have read my other post about those two girls. one with a bf and one single. well update is that im making out with the single one but were not anything official yet. BUT i keep messing around with the one with a bf and now now shes tellin me that this kid in our class is tight with her bf. SHE DIDNT SAY SHIET BEFORE. so now im wrried her bf is going to attempt to fight me or at least confront me. now im not afraid to fight but wit graduation 7 weeks aways i dont want to get expelled. damn i knew i shoulda stayed away from her. but what should i do if he confronts me or wants to fight
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
might get into a fight or confrontation
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Kev07
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stand your ground.
don't let him pressure you into a fight you don't want to fight.
if he gets up in your face, don't back down, but don't fight. if he pushes you, just walk right back up to his face, if he swings, then you can start kicking his ass, he'll be the one at fault. all you have to say is "well he started pushing me then out of nowhere he started swinging!, i didn't even push back!"
don't let him pressure you into a fight you don't want to fight.
if he gets up in your face, don't back down, but don't fight. if he pushes you, just walk right back up to his face, if he swings, then you can start kicking his ass, he'll be the one at fault. all you have to say is "well he started pushing me then out of nowhere he started swinging!, i didn't even push back!"
DJ in Progress
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Kev07 is right on. stand up to him and don't get pushed around.
kind of stupid to pick a fight with you though, if his GF is messsing around with other guys then he should have a problem with her, not you.
kind of stupid to pick a fight with you though, if his GF is messsing around with other guys then he should have a problem with her, not you.
Deviant_DeWilde
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LMAO!BluEyes said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
same situation im in, i think il do wat 'kev07' said, update you all tomorow 
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
From personal experience, keep a few feet between the two of you. That way, if he swings first, you've got some space to get out of the way. I got right up in a kids face, and he clocked my ass. Luckily I recovered quick enough to dodge the next one, and put a few fists into his face before he curled up.
Moral of the story: Be on your toes. Don't get ****y, don't get arrogant, don't get stupid.
Moral of the story: Be on your toes. Don't get ****y, don't get arrogant, don't get stupid.
Kev07
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If you're close enough, he shouldn't be able to get a good swing in, and if he does, then you must be blind to not see it coming
he told me in a nice way that he heard i was giving looks to his girl and was like didnt want any problems cause he was cool with me. i just said dont woory about it. bcus now i have a grl so it wouldnt be fair to her. but the feelings toward the girl with a man are stilll there it feels weird to not touch her as much or watch what i say.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.