You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
do you really think i need the pity of an average white boy?I already told you on another thread... Your mentality is the source of your failure. You are just here venting your frustration. So you failed a little bit? Suck it up, move along. You want to win? Keep on working at it and soon it becomes easier. However, this is all a pathetic excuse because you do not want to put in the hard work to get there. You are simply here trying to get a pity party because you failed and are trying to feel better about it. But I give no pity...
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You fail to realize I more of a troll than anything else. I know these kind of whinning threads pisses people off. I love how they all get upset.It is kind of fun watching this guy rage so much and blaming everything but himself on his problems. I mean, here this guy was talking about how Latino's were the real Don Juans, but obviously this guy is not Don Juan material. He lacks the mindset, the focus, the dedication. I am afraid there is no helping him...