I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
do you really think i need the pity of an average white boy?I already told you on another thread... Your mentality is the source of your failure. You are just here venting your frustration. So you failed a little bit? Suck it up, move along. You want to win? Keep on working at it and soon it becomes easier. However, this is all a pathetic excuse because you do not want to put in the hard work to get there. You are simply here trying to get a pity party because you failed and are trying to feel better about it. But I give no pity...
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You fail to realize I more of a troll than anything else. I know these kind of whinning threads pisses people off. I love how they all get upset.It is kind of fun watching this guy rage so much and blaming everything but himself on his problems. I mean, here this guy was talking about how Latino's were the real Don Juans, but obviously this guy is not Don Juan material. He lacks the mindset, the focus, the dedication. I am afraid there is no helping him...