You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
do you really think i need the pity of an average white boy?I already told you on another thread... Your mentality is the source of your failure. You are just here venting your frustration. So you failed a little bit? Suck it up, move along. You want to win? Keep on working at it and soon it becomes easier. However, this is all a pathetic excuse because you do not want to put in the hard work to get there. You are simply here trying to get a pity party because you failed and are trying to feel better about it. But I give no pity...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You fail to realize I more of a troll than anything else. I know these kind of whinning threads pisses people off. I love how they all get upset.It is kind of fun watching this guy rage so much and blaming everything but himself on his problems. I mean, here this guy was talking about how Latino's were the real Don Juans, but obviously this guy is not Don Juan material. He lacks the mindset, the focus, the dedication. I am afraid there is no helping him...