She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
do you really think i need the pity of an average white boy?I already told you on another thread... Your mentality is the source of your failure. You are just here venting your frustration. So you failed a little bit? Suck it up, move along. You want to win? Keep on working at it and soon it becomes easier. However, this is all a pathetic excuse because you do not want to put in the hard work to get there. You are simply here trying to get a pity party because you failed and are trying to feel better about it. But I give no pity...
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You fail to realize I more of a troll than anything else. I know these kind of whinning threads pisses people off. I love how they all get upset.It is kind of fun watching this guy rage so much and blaming everything but himself on his problems. I mean, here this guy was talking about how Latino's were the real Don Juans, but obviously this guy is not Don Juan material. He lacks the mindset, the focus, the dedication. I am afraid there is no helping him...