Scuba Steve
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Any thoughts on going MGTOW while trying to get over wife?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Murk
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No idea what men going their own way really translates to. But I'll say depending on how soon you broke up, you need to take some time out, spin some cheap plates, work on yourself and re-calibrate. If the relationship is totally dead and no way to rekindle, bang women and better yourself. It's the played out cliche you will hear here, because it works.
CBear
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It's basically spinning plates from what I know. Had my assumptions about it at first and thought it was stupid until I talked to a guy I work with and has a big following on social media.
Single, young dad of a couple girls. & from what I got out of it, mgtow is basically men who get fked financially by a woman/women due to marriage or a variety of other reasons when the women decide the "spark is gone" or some ****.
These are basically guys telling other guys to avoid marriage in all cases as well as LTR's in most but to continue spinning plates and fking chicks. So basically a similar attitudes a lot of red pill guys already seem to have.
Single, young dad of a couple girls. & from what I got out of it, mgtow is basically men who get fked financially by a woman/women due to marriage or a variety of other reasons when the women decide the "spark is gone" or some ****.
These are basically guys telling other guys to avoid marriage in all cases as well as LTR's in most but to continue spinning plates and fking chicks. So basically a similar attitudes a lot of red pill guys already seem to have.
Masculinity
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There's no such thing as "the one". She's not yours; it's just your turn until the next guy comes in.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
mrgoodstuff
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It's just focusing on your needs as a man and not making women a priority at all. It's a very fast way of gaining recovery and focus.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
MGTOW = not degenerating into a walking dildo for men [and many think they are 'spinning plates'... ha ha.. that's a spin on it for sure]. Rather, do your own thing until you meet an attractive woman who wants a relationship on YOUR terms... or not.
logicallefty
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MGTOW is whatever the fvck you want it to be, key words THEIR OWN way = YOUR OWN WAY. In my opinion it can be anything from extreme munk mode living in the Alaskan woods on one end and not talking to another woman until the day you die... Alllll the way to the other end which IMO would be having a LTR but protecting the sh|t out of everything in life that's important including your money, time, reputation, job, health, children if any, and everything else under the sun in a man's life that is [ should be ] more important to him than any damn woman.
RichardTheFrog
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They kicked me off their forum for saying I still want to have sex with girls.
The fact that they can't even let themselves enjoy prostitutes makes me question their whole group.
Obviously, I never met anyone off their site in person, and not sure I would want to.
The fact that they can't even let themselves enjoy prostitutes makes me question their whole group.
Obviously, I never met anyone off their site in person, and not sure I would want to.
CBear
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That's cause ik for a fact that many guys that say they're "mgtow" are freakin losers who can't get girls or sex in the first place so they decide to go "their own way" out of frustration. Basically just like modern feminism.
The guys that started it, from what I've seen, have lived their lives, got disappointed somehow by women, and decided to better themselves by going their own way. Idk what happens after that but I don't really see anything wrong with that. Go for it op, it'll probably bring you more happiness in the end.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
MGTOW goes against nature as much as feminism. But if you are a man and do not want to put up with normal female BS in a world where feminism is considered 'normal'... yea I can totally understand giving up chicks and turning to sex dolls and porn and keeping your money.
I enjoy female contact too much... but have the sense to know not to get burned.. but I think this has come form age. But if you are not willing to get a vasectomy and do not trust yourself not to catch feelings... then you are taking risks with chicks.
I enjoy female contact too much... but have the sense to know not to get burned.. but I think this has come form age. But if you are not willing to get a vasectomy and do not trust yourself not to catch feelings... then you are taking risks with chicks.
RichardTheFrog
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I don't see anything wrong with going through a "phase" like that...
But permanently? No way. You only live once. Why spend it like that?
CBear
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Exactly. Everyone goes through phases like that and that's normal. But it's not okay when one doesn't try to better themselves and basically quit life out of sexual frustration
RichardTheFrog
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It is a very rare guy that is just SO UGLY that he could never attract a woman. Like maybe 1/100. And even he could get rich perhaps.