"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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metro-sex gone wrong... (pic inside)

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah I'm not a big fan of metrosexual style. Some may say the manly look is overdone, but look around you and ask yourself, "How many of these manly style guys are A) fit and muscular, B) clean, C) well groomed (not to metrosexual standards though), and D) coming across as MEN, not hostile unsure lazy mediocre social superiority and approval seeking cowards?" Ahhh, so maybe the manly style is quite rare, because it comes from the inside, not a brand of shirt =)
 

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What a pathetic example of a male. That is not a man. What are you guys talking about his woman's a 5 at best- and she STILL doesn't look like she wants anything to do with him.

What gay hair. What a gay shirt. That guy definitely doesn't listen to metal. He likes Simple Plan, Usher and Maroon 5.

That guy needs a good old-fashioned beating. What a queer.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ego

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Haha. Girl could either be girlfriend, sister or just some random chick he found at the same party.


Anyways, who gives a flying fvck?

:woo:
 

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Relax guys, this was probably his halloween costume or something. :p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jariel

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Originally posted by Interpol
The guy in that picture isn't "metrosexual style", he's "attention whor style".
I agree. Metrosexual means taking pride in your appearance, not being flamboyant (or effeminate).
 

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that guy is the male version of an AW.

p.s.: There is nothing wrong with white pants;) I got about 4 of those, and they look d@mn good!:D ... and pink shirts rock, depending on the shirt and the person wearing them, but THAT pink is crazy:p ... blah


Laterz...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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undesputable

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wow look at him...

Highlights in the hair

Clear face

Cleanly shaved

Gayest tie ive ever seen

Gayest shirt ive ever seen

Gayest belt ive ever seen

Gayest guy ive ever seen
 

FOL!!!

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I maybe missed something, buuuut......

Why is everyone saying stuff like "...you can wear/do/see/sing/get away with/whatever alot, when getting a girl..." ?

HE might have been with her for a month and wear a .. pink .. piece of..clothing.. for the first time...

Oh well, I probably missed something :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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