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Don Juan
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beautiful
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
metro-sex gone wrong... (pic inside)
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yeah I'm not a big fan of metrosexual style. Some may say the manly look is overdone, but look around you and ask yourself, "How many of these manly style guys are A) fit and muscular, B) clean, C) well groomed (not to metrosexual standards though), and D) coming across as MEN, not hostile unsure lazy mediocre social superiority and approval seeking cowards?" Ahhh, so maybe the manly style is quite rare, because it comes from the inside, not a brand of shirt =)
Pantera_man
Don Juan
What a pathetic example of a male. That is not a man. What are you guys talking about his woman's a 5 at best- and she STILL doesn't look like she wants anything to do with him.
What gay hair. What a gay shirt. That guy definitely doesn't listen to metal. He likes Simple Plan, Usher and Maroon 5.
That guy needs a good old-fashioned beating. What a queer.
What gay hair. What a gay shirt. That guy definitely doesn't listen to metal. He likes Simple Plan, Usher and Maroon 5.
That guy needs a good old-fashioned beating. What a queer.
themanwithnoname
Senior Don Juan
It's not just his shirt, check out his pants and his belt!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Don Juan
Dark Haired Alpha
Don Juan
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soooo you were checking him out
phatboi408
Senior Don Juan
Where can I get that shirt LoL JK at least well I dont know....at least he has confidence to wear it.And who is that?? And the chick on the right is hot...and happy because she is thankful that her date did not wear that pink dress shirt.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
that guy is the male version of an AW.
p.s.: There is nothing wrong with white pants I got about 4 of those, and they look d@mn good! ... and pink shirts rock, depending on the shirt and the person wearing them, but THAT pink is crazy ... blah
Laterz...
p.s.: There is nothing wrong with white pants
I got about 4 of those, and they look d@mn good! ... and pink shirts rock, depending on the shirt and the person wearing them, but THAT pink is crazy ... blahLaterz...
Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
If I went to an 80s style party or club I'd probably dress like that.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
wow look at him...
Highlights in the hair
Clear face
Cleanly shaved
Gayest tie ive ever seen
Gayest shirt ive ever seen
Gayest belt ive ever seen
Gayest guy ive ever seen
Highlights in the hair
Clear face
Cleanly shaved
Gayest tie ive ever seen
Gayest shirt ive ever seen
Gayest belt ive ever seen
Gayest guy ive ever seen
I maybe missed something, buuuut......
Why is everyone saying stuff like "...you can wear/do/see/sing/get away with/whatever alot, when getting a girl..." ?
HE might have been with her for a month and wear a .. pink .. piece of..clothing.. for the first time...
Oh well, I probably missed something
Why is everyone saying stuff like "...you can wear/do/see/sing/get away with/whatever alot, when getting a girl..." ?
HE might have been with her for a month and wear a .. pink .. piece of..clothing.. for the first time...
Oh well, I probably missed something
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
I want to punch both of them in the face.
diablo
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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