Dark Haired Alpha
Don Juan
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beautiful
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
metro-sex gone wrong... (pic inside)
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yeah I'm not a big fan of metrosexual style. Some may say the manly look is overdone, but look around you and ask yourself, "How many of these manly style guys are A) fit and muscular, B) clean, C) well groomed (not to metrosexual standards though), and D) coming across as MEN, not hostile unsure lazy mediocre social superiority and approval seeking cowards?" Ahhh, so maybe the manly style is quite rare, because it comes from the inside, not a brand of shirt =)
Pantera_man
Don Juan
What a pathetic example of a male. That is not a man. What are you guys talking about his woman's a 5 at best- and she STILL doesn't look like she wants anything to do with him.
What gay hair. What a gay shirt. That guy definitely doesn't listen to metal. He likes Simple Plan, Usher and Maroon 5.
That guy needs a good old-fashioned beating. What a queer.
What gay hair. What a gay shirt. That guy definitely doesn't listen to metal. He likes Simple Plan, Usher and Maroon 5.
That guy needs a good old-fashioned beating. What a queer.
themanwithnoname
Senior Don Juan
It's not just his shirt, check out his pants and his belt!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Don Juan
Dark Haired Alpha
Don Juan
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soooo you were checking him out
phatboi408
Senior Don Juan
Where can I get that shirt LoL JK at least well I dont know....at least he has confidence to wear it.And who is that?? And the chick on the right is hot...and happy because she is thankful that her date did not wear that pink dress shirt.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
that guy is the male version of an AW.
p.s.: There is nothing wrong with white pants I got about 4 of those, and they look d@mn good! ... and pink shirts rock, depending on the shirt and the person wearing them, but THAT pink is crazy ... blah
Laterz...
p.s.: There is nothing wrong with white pants
I got about 4 of those, and they look d@mn good! ... and pink shirts rock, depending on the shirt and the person wearing them, but THAT pink is crazy ... blahLaterz...
Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
If I went to an 80s style party or club I'd probably dress like that.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
wow look at him...
Highlights in the hair
Clear face
Cleanly shaved
Gayest tie ive ever seen
Gayest shirt ive ever seen
Gayest belt ive ever seen
Gayest guy ive ever seen
Highlights in the hair
Clear face
Cleanly shaved
Gayest tie ive ever seen
Gayest shirt ive ever seen
Gayest belt ive ever seen
Gayest guy ive ever seen
I maybe missed something, buuuut......
Why is everyone saying stuff like "...you can wear/do/see/sing/get away with/whatever alot, when getting a girl..." ?
HE might have been with her for a month and wear a .. pink .. piece of..clothing.. for the first time...
Oh well, I probably missed something
Why is everyone saying stuff like "...you can wear/do/see/sing/get away with/whatever alot, when getting a girl..." ?
HE might have been with her for a month and wear a .. pink .. piece of..clothing.. for the first time...
Oh well, I probably missed something
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
I want to punch both of them in the face.
diablo
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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