"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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metro-sex gone wrong... (pic inside)

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah I'm not a big fan of metrosexual style. Some may say the manly look is overdone, but look around you and ask yourself, "How many of these manly style guys are A) fit and muscular, B) clean, C) well groomed (not to metrosexual standards though), and D) coming across as MEN, not hostile unsure lazy mediocre social superiority and approval seeking cowards?" Ahhh, so maybe the manly style is quite rare, because it comes from the inside, not a brand of shirt =)
 

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What a pathetic example of a male. That is not a man. What are you guys talking about his woman's a 5 at best- and she STILL doesn't look like she wants anything to do with him.

What gay hair. What a gay shirt. That guy definitely doesn't listen to metal. He likes Simple Plan, Usher and Maroon 5.

That guy needs a good old-fashioned beating. What a queer.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Haha. Girl could either be girlfriend, sister or just some random chick he found at the same party.


Anyways, who gives a flying fvck?

:woo:
 

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Relax guys, this was probably his halloween costume or something. :p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Interpol
The guy in that picture isn't "metrosexual style", he's "attention whor style".
I agree. Metrosexual means taking pride in your appearance, not being flamboyant (or effeminate).
 

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that guy is the male version of an AW.

p.s.: There is nothing wrong with white pants;) I got about 4 of those, and they look d@mn good!:D ... and pink shirts rock, depending on the shirt and the person wearing them, but THAT pink is crazy:p ... blah


Laterz...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wow look at him...

Highlights in the hair

Clear face

Cleanly shaved

Gayest tie ive ever seen

Gayest shirt ive ever seen

Gayest belt ive ever seen

Gayest guy ive ever seen
 

FOL!!!

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I maybe missed something, buuuut......

Why is everyone saying stuff like "...you can wear/do/see/sing/get away with/whatever alot, when getting a girl..." ?

HE might have been with her for a month and wear a .. pink .. piece of..clothing.. for the first time...

Oh well, I probably missed something :p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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