"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Methods to 'Finish' Quicker

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Maybe “edge” before the date. Whack off a bit but don’t finish.

The pump will be half primed when you restart by doing the real thing.
Good shout and I did consider this, but keep forgetting before meeting her. Getting 'primed like this makes a lot of sense.

Last week we were talking about fantasies and one of them involved turning up at hers during the day, bending her over her desk for a quickie, without talking to each then leaving... hopefully without the police being called :D. As you can imagine, me lasting for hours would kind of spoil it.

I'd hate to disappoint so looking to address it.

Priming things could be the answer here
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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On the ginger I've heard it was reveared in jail for being a test booster. A teaspoon before your workout will raise your aggression. Like you get mad and focused.
The amount these things will raise it is basically insignificant
 

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The amount these things will raise it is basically insignificant
Whether or not ginger raise test i don't know the results of scientific research. But on raising AGGRESSION, a teaspoon raise my aggression within 15 minutes. You'll be mad and really focused for the next 60-90 minutes. It's a very noticeable affect..
 

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stop masturbating and maybe spend more time with fore play and her getting you worked up. I can tell ya tho, the problem only gets worse with age. Used to be i could always count on coming doggy style and now that doesnt even happen anymore. Usually a race to see how long i can stay hard during sex now. Getting old sucks.
 

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stop masturbating and maybe spend more time with fore play and her getting you worked up. I can tell ya tho, the problem only gets worse with age. Used to be i could always count on coming doggy style and now that doesnt even happen anymore. Usually a race to see how long i can stay hard during sex now. Getting old sucks.
Stay in the saddle, that's all you can do. Be aware of negative thoughts, that's not good.

As we get older we get more diligent, focused and have a lot more drive to get tasks done. For sex we need to be less focused, more relaxed and not under stress.

There are a lot of tips and tricks we can employ to minimize the effects aging have on our minds and our bodies. Aging will occur, but it doesn't have to get us down as much as people who don't care about their mental and physical health.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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