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This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
I agree that this is an opportunity for sex. It is long overdue with her.
No. Do not send her anything. Ask her out. Plan the logistics. Take her somewhere close to your house or her house (because sex can happen if the night goes well). Pick her up if you can. On the date, escalate. Attempt to kiss her within 45 minutes. 30 is even better.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
We don't live in the same country and I won't be in that country for another 3 months, so have to get the rapport going if want to escalate (and I do)
Nah. Disappear. Reappear 2-3 weeks before you go to the country. You gain nothing by chatting with this girl for 3 months when you haven’t even banged yet.
Just why are you even bothering considering this?
Why do we do the things we do? You could ask every guy that’s chasing tail here the very same question
If you were local to her, I would recommend acting on it. If she were local and she's unhappy in her relationship, she will be inclined to have sex with you if you present yourself as an compelling option for her.
You will not be in that country for another 3 months what is the point of building rapport?
I asked because this seems like a waste of time and energy. I go by the line by Dr. Robert Glover: “Walk through open doors”.
It does seem like a better option to reach out then, 3 months is nothing
