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Met someone new - how interpret this ?

BigFoot

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I met someone through one of the dating sites. We met in person at a Restaurant/Bar nearby that has live music. It was alot of fun - we both liked it, and I could tell she liked me. Next day she sent me an email saying she enjoyed it. This girl is older (as I am) but I'd say she's a 9 easily - blonde hair, young looking skin, slim figure and knows how to dress. She is getting divorced and has two children.

First thing I'm wondering about is: she tells me from the start that she's very busy, won't have alot of time to get together (children, divorce, school in Fall) . Does this sound reasonable ? Seems like if she were interested she'd make time.

Second thing I notice is that she talks alot about "friends" and musicians that she has met in the past or may know now. I'm also getting the impression she has alot of "friends". She has guitar picks from a bunch of guitar players including a couple of famous ones. (I'm a pretty accomplished guitarist myself so this might explain her interest in me).
I'm getting the impression alot of this talk is her trying to impress me, that it might be half made up, but I'm not sure.
Does anyone have any perspective on this ? Maybe you met someone similar in the past ?
 

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My guess. This is a guess.

She is looking for a provider, or a friend to support her.



Who paid for dinner/drinks?




Be honest. Do you want a chick with two children and a record that she's not wanted by another man (divorce & whatever the excuse)???? Basically, if she wanted to fvck you'd fvck the first night.
 

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I paid, and it wasn't cheap for a first date. Most attractive older women have children so that's not unusual, and I like children anyway. I don't know why she's getting divorced, but I can tell you it's not her looks or
manner !
 

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