"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Met someone new - how interpret this ?

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I met someone through one of the dating sites. We met in person at a Restaurant/Bar nearby that has live music. It was alot of fun - we both liked it, and I could tell she liked me. Next day she sent me an email saying she enjoyed it. This girl is older (as I am) but I'd say she's a 9 easily - blonde hair, young looking skin, slim figure and knows how to dress. She is getting divorced and has two children.

First thing I'm wondering about is: she tells me from the start that she's very busy, won't have alot of time to get together (children, divorce, school in Fall) . Does this sound reasonable ? Seems like if she were interested she'd make time.

Second thing I notice is that she talks alot about "friends" and musicians that she has met in the past or may know now. I'm also getting the impression she has alot of "friends". She has guitar picks from a bunch of guitar players including a couple of famous ones. (I'm a pretty accomplished guitarist myself so this might explain her interest in me).
I'm getting the impression alot of this talk is her trying to impress me, that it might be half made up, but I'm not sure.
Does anyone have any perspective on this ? Maybe you met someone similar in the past ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My guess. This is a guess.

She is looking for a provider, or a friend to support her.



Who paid for dinner/drinks?




Be honest. Do you want a chick with two children and a record that she's not wanted by another man (divorce & whatever the excuse)???? Basically, if she wanted to fvck you'd fvck the first night.
 
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I paid, and it wasn't cheap for a first date. Most attractive older women have children so that's not unusual, and I like children anyway. I don't know why she's getting divorced, but I can tell you it's not her looks or
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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