Black Casanova
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do you think moving your hand away at the last second would be funny, childish, or would it depend on the girl?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Messing with a girl when giving high fives
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
lol honestly, was this needed?
If you're giving a high five you're already being pretty childish with a funny tone[thats how i give em atleast,as a joke] so i bet if you're joking around like that with ehr already, she'd view it as funny.
If you're giving a high five you're already being pretty childish with a funny tone[thats how i give em atleast,as a joke] so i bet if you're joking around like that with ehr already, she'd view it as funny.
Id say it would be classed as funny but its hardly going to make any differance anyway. I can imagine 2 girls haiving a conversation
Girl 1: But he was perfect for you he was funny, intellegent, all other DJ traits why did you dump him?
Girl 2: He went to give me a high five and pulled his hand away at last second.
Girl 1: Now I understand
Girl 1: But he was perfect for you he was funny, intellegent, all other DJ traits why did you dump him?
Girl 2: He went to give me a high five and pulled his hand away at last second.
Girl 1: Now I understand
DiSt0rTi0n_07
Don Juan
Why would you pull away?
lol, man... if you are real new to this (and it seems so) you should know that pulling away is detracting from your kino. Usually I start with something a little more responsive but for a beginner, this is where you start. Why pull away?
lol, man... if you are real new to this (and it seems so) you should know that pulling away is detracting from your kino. Usually I start with something a little more responsive but for a beginner, this is where you start. Why pull away?
Nex
Senior Don Juan
He means to tease.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
This is retarded
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
1. If you give a girl a high five, and you're over the age of 12 or 13, you'll look like an idiot.
2. Grow up.
2. Grow up.
Black Casanova
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Who needs to grow up? The person who asked a question, or the person who got their neck out of joint about it on the internet?
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
The person that gives "high fives" to women needs to grow up. Need more clarifying? You need to grow up.