Black Casanova
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do you think moving your hand away at the last second would be funny, childish, or would it depend on the girl?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Messing with a girl when giving high fives
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
lol honestly, was this needed?
If you're giving a high five you're already being pretty childish with a funny tone[thats how i give em atleast,as a joke] so i bet if you're joking around like that with ehr already, she'd view it as funny.
If you're giving a high five you're already being pretty childish with a funny tone[thats how i give em atleast,as a joke] so i bet if you're joking around like that with ehr already, she'd view it as funny.
Id say it would be classed as funny but its hardly going to make any differance anyway. I can imagine 2 girls haiving a conversation
Girl 1: But he was perfect for you he was funny, intellegent, all other DJ traits why did you dump him?
Girl 2: He went to give me a high five and pulled his hand away at last second.
Girl 1: Now I understand
Girl 1: But he was perfect for you he was funny, intellegent, all other DJ traits why did you dump him?
Girl 2: He went to give me a high five and pulled his hand away at last second.
Girl 1: Now I understand
DiSt0rTi0n_07
Don Juan
Why would you pull away?
lol, man... if you are real new to this (and it seems so) you should know that pulling away is detracting from your kino. Usually I start with something a little more responsive but for a beginner, this is where you start. Why pull away?
lol, man... if you are real new to this (and it seems so) you should know that pulling away is detracting from your kino. Usually I start with something a little more responsive but for a beginner, this is where you start. Why pull away?
Nex
Senior Don Juan
He means to tease.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
This is retarded
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
1. If you give a girl a high five, and you're over the age of 12 or 13, you'll look like an idiot.
2. Grow up.
2. Grow up.
Black Casanova
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Who needs to grow up? The person who asked a question, or the person who got their neck out of joint about it on the internet?
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
The person that gives "high fives" to women needs to grow up. Need more clarifying? You need to grow up.