"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Messing with a girl when giving high fives

Which?

  • Funny

    Votes: 7 31.8%
  • Childish

    Votes: 2 9.1%
  • depends on the girl and how well u know her

    Votes: 13 59.1%

  • Total voters
    22

Black Casanova

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do you think moving your hand away at the last second would be funny, childish, or would it depend on the girl?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Patrick124

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lol honestly, was this needed?
If you're giving a high five you're already being pretty childish with a funny tone[thats how i give em atleast,as a joke] so i bet if you're joking around like that with ehr already, she'd view it as funny.
 

MarcP

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Id say it would be classed as funny but its hardly going to make any differance anyway. I can imagine 2 girls haiving a conversation

Girl 1: But he was perfect for you he was funny, intellegent, all other DJ traits why did you dump him?
Girl 2: He went to give me a high five and pulled his hand away at last second.
Girl 1: Now I understand
:D
 

DiSt0rTi0n_07

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Why would you pull away?

lol, man... if you are real new to this (and it seems so) you should know that pulling away is detracting from your kino. Usually I start with something a little more responsive but for a beginner, this is where you start. Why pull away?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oakraiderz2

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This is retarded
 

splinterkb

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1. If you give a girl a high five, and you're over the age of 12 or 13, you'll look like an idiot.

2. Grow up.
 

Black Casanova

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Who needs to grow up? The person who asked a question, or the person who got their neck out of joint about it on the internet?
 

splinterkb

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The person that gives "high fives" to women needs to grow up. Need more clarifying? You need to grow up.
 
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