Ok I am a high school senior and I took a high school senior to lunch today. She was an ex of mine but I heard she liked me so I was being pretty confident. We were holding hands and at the end of lunch when we got to school I went in for a kiss because I am retarted and she said she is not like that. I feel like such a doofus. Would I guess right saying she hates me?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Messed up today
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LuckyDevil6
Don Juan
I would probably just say that she doesn't want her friends to see her kissing an old ex.. because maybe they'd think shes a slut for getting back with her boyfriend??
thats my opinion anyways..
thats my opinion anyways..
AdrenalynJunkee
Don Juan
If you're holding hands, she doesn't hate you. She propably meant that she doesn't want to rush into things, simple as that. Plus, in school, around her friends, with her ex, kissing? Eh, not every girl wants to be labeled. Especially since her friends know you two are not going out. Yet.
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Dimebag_Darrell
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LongDrinkofWater
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Bud, it's probably all good.
I agree with a couple of others here who say that she acted that way because she was at school. I'd bet if she were alone with you she'd have kissed you.......
I agree with a couple of others here who say that she acted that way because she was at school. I'd bet if she were alone with you she'd have kissed you.......
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
blah...you went for the kiss and she said no, you now know that she doesnt like you that way or plays games. Move on to the next person
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
To keep this short,
bud_2005:
I do not trust her intentions. She shows signs of interest, yet blatently refuses to move up a level.
Move on from your ex. She is toying with you.
I do not know her personally so I can not make a proper hypothesis, however she seems to be the girl who loves to be loves. An attention *****. She wants you to reciprocate her "love." She wants to KNOW her ex still bears feelings, since the break-up.
bud_2005:
I do not trust her intentions. She shows signs of interest, yet blatently refuses to move up a level.
Move on from your ex. She is toying with you.
I do not know her personally so I can not make a proper hypothesis, however she seems to be the girl who loves to be loves. An attention *****. She wants you to reciprocate her "love." She wants to KNOW her ex still bears feelings, since the break-up.