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bud_2005

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Ok I am a high school senior and I took a high school senior to lunch today. She was an ex of mine but I heard she liked me so I was being pretty confident. We were holding hands and at the end of lunch when we got to school I went in for a kiss because I am retarted and she said she is not like that. I feel like such a doofus. Would I guess right saying she hates me?
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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teencraft

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If you drove her to lunch I would have left her ass there.
 

LuckyDevil6

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I would probably just say that she doesn't want her friends to see her kissing an old ex.. because maybe they'd think shes a slut for getting back with her boyfriend??
thats my opinion anyways..
 

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If you're holding hands, she doesn't hate you. She propably meant that she doesn't want to rush into things, simple as that. Plus, in school, around her friends, with her ex, kissing? Eh, not every girl wants to be labeled. Especially since her friends know you two are not going out. Yet.
 

Bunk 040

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Hell naw, she just don't like you playa. If a girl likes you she willing to do whatever you want her to do with you, especially KISS. Come on.
 

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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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LongDrinkofWater

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Bud, it's probably all good.

I agree with a couple of others here who say that she acted that way because she was at school. I'd bet if she were alone with you she'd have kissed you.......
 

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blah...you went for the kiss and she said no, you now know that she doesnt like you that way or plays games. Move on to the next person
 

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she may of thought that since you were her ex that you thought that you go pretty far at the very beggining and didnt want to be a slut
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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bud_2005

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What should I say to this girl tomorrow assuming she still has interest in me. They preach on here to never apologize to a girl for your sexual interests.
 

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To keep this short,

bud_2005:

I do not trust her intentions. She shows signs of interest, yet blatently refuses to move up a level.

Move on from your ex. She is toying with you.

I do not know her personally so I can not make a proper hypothesis, however she seems to be the girl who loves to be loves. An attention *****. She wants you to reciprocate her "love." She wants to KNOW her ex still bears feelings, since the break-up.
 
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