Ok I am a high school senior and I took a high school senior to lunch today. She was an ex of mine but I heard she liked me so I was being pretty confident. We were holding hands and at the end of lunch when we got to school I went in for a kiss because I am retarted and she said she is not like that. I feel like such a doofus. Would I guess right saying she hates me?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Messed up today
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LuckyDevil6
Don Juan
I would probably just say that she doesn't want her friends to see her kissing an old ex.. because maybe they'd think shes a slut for getting back with her boyfriend??
thats my opinion anyways..
thats my opinion anyways..
AdrenalynJunkee
Don Juan
If you're holding hands, she doesn't hate you. She propably meant that she doesn't want to rush into things, simple as that. Plus, in school, around her friends, with her ex, kissing? Eh, not every girl wants to be labeled. Especially since her friends know you two are not going out. Yet.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dimebag_Darrell
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watch Scarface
LongDrinkofWater
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Bud, it's probably all good.
I agree with a couple of others here who say that she acted that way because she was at school. I'd bet if she were alone with you she'd have kissed you.......
I agree with a couple of others here who say that she acted that way because she was at school. I'd bet if she were alone with you she'd have kissed you.......
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
blah...you went for the kiss and she said no, you now know that she doesnt like you that way or plays games. Move on to the next person
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
To keep this short,
bud_2005:
I do not trust her intentions. She shows signs of interest, yet blatently refuses to move up a level.
Move on from your ex. She is toying with you.
I do not know her personally so I can not make a proper hypothesis, however she seems to be the girl who loves to be loves. An attention *****. She wants you to reciprocate her "love." She wants to KNOW her ex still bears feelings, since the break-up.
bud_2005:
I do not trust her intentions. She shows signs of interest, yet blatently refuses to move up a level.
Move on from your ex. She is toying with you.
I do not know her personally so I can not make a proper hypothesis, however she seems to be the girl who loves to be loves. An attention *****. She wants you to reciprocate her "love." She wants to KNOW her ex still bears feelings, since the break-up.