"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Merry Christmas!

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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r4zorsharp

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Was going to start a thread but seen you beat me to it. Merry Xmas to all you alpha males on here. I hope you all make the exact changes needed to reach your goals in life and with women. I hope that it all comes to you with ease and joy.

Let's be the best we can be, and help each other out as much as we can. We deserve the best as men who are actively pursuing what we desire. Let nothing stand in our way from successes in our life, and achievement and joy. Not even our own minds, not the hearts of others.

Feel free to reach out to me if any of you ever want to talk about anything, or need some advice or motivation. I am just as eager for advice and motivation from others as well.
 

Romanemp22

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Merry Christmas to all of you who celebrate , have a wonderful time with your loved ones!
Cheers
 

SpartanWarrior77

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Merry Christmas fellow Don Juan's, Casanova's, and other archetypes. Hope you all relax and have a good time!
 

CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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Merry Christmas, may this God forsaken year end and lead to less lockdown, they are levying $1000 fines for any social gatherings, obviously its Christmas, your not allowed to see family.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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EyeBRollin

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Thank you OP. Same to you!

Merry Christmas, may this God forsaken year end and lead to less lockdown, they are levying $1000 fines for any social gatherings, obviously its Christmas, your not allowed to see family.
This doesn’t pass the smell test. Where are you located where they are issuing fines for visiting family?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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zekko

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Yeah, we're getting fines here in Manitoba too. It's currently illegal to buy a fvcking birthday card.
Good to know that the US isn't the only country that has given in to insanity. If I believed in conspiracies, it would almost make me think there was some global force at work.

Oh, and Merry Christmas, by the way.
 
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