BeExcellent
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Merry Christmas Gentlemen! May each of you be blessed and enjoy abundance now and in the coming year 
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Merry Christmas!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
r4zorsharp
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Was going to start a thread but seen you beat me to it. Merry Xmas to all you alpha males on here. I hope you all make the exact changes needed to reach your goals in life and with women. I hope that it all comes to you with ease and joy.
Let's be the best we can be, and help each other out as much as we can. We deserve the best as men who are actively pursuing what we desire. Let nothing stand in our way from successes in our life, and achievement and joy. Not even our own minds, not the hearts of others.
Feel free to reach out to me if any of you ever want to talk about anything, or need some advice or motivation. I am just as eager for advice and motivation from others as well.
Let's be the best we can be, and help each other out as much as we can. We deserve the best as men who are actively pursuing what we desire. Let nothing stand in our way from successes in our life, and achievement and joy. Not even our own minds, not the hearts of others.
Feel free to reach out to me if any of you ever want to talk about anything, or need some advice or motivation. I am just as eager for advice and motivation from others as well.
Romanemp22
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Merry Christmas to all of you who celebrate , have a wonderful time with your loved ones!
Cheers
Cheers
SpartanWarrior77
Master Don Juan
Merry Christmas fellow Don Juan's, Casanova's, and other archetypes. Hope you all relax and have a good time!
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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Merry Christmas, may this God forsaken year end and lead to less lockdown, they are levying $1000 fines for any social gatherings, obviously its Christmas, your not allowed to see family.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
EyeBRollin
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Thank you OP. Same to you!
This doesn’t pass the smell test. Where are you located where they are issuing fines for visiting family?
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
Desdinova
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Yeah, we're getting fines here in Manitoba too. It's currently illegal to buy a fvcking birthday card.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
A belated Merry Christmas to all!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
zekko
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Good to know that the US isn't the only country that has given in to insanity. If I believed in conspiracies, it would almost make me think there was some global force at work.
Oh, and Merry Christmas, by the way.